Love is beautiful and nurturing. Without
love every aspect of life is meaningless. When two individuals come together or
fall in love, it is not two people, but two energies that wish to seek happiness.
Falling for someone without any benefits can define true love. It’s a pure
feeling that cannot be merely expressed in three words.
Happiness is the foundation of lovers
followed with trust and respect. Falling in love is easy but it brings a lot of
pain when you find you have been deceived or cheated by your partner. This is
less of a physical and more of emotional pain and is directly related to the trust. If you break trust of your partner, it will directly destroy your
relationship. Trust is like a thread that defines the strength of a
relationship.
Another important thing is the behaviour
patterns in relationships. The reason why a couple falls out of a relationship
after sometime is nothing but the behaviour of the partner. Specially the
narcissist’s behaviour of your partner kills your identity and it directly
affects your cognitive ability.
Defensive nature is an integral part of
human life, especially in arguments, everybody wants to win. Heated arguments
digging out the past mistakes and keeping score of mistakes are signs of
falling age old happy relationships. The need to understand and be calmer in
such situations corrupt the mind in order to take one on a guilt trip.
Millions of lives are living on this planet
just in the hope that one day their partner will understand and things will
come back to normal.
This is the biggest defeat of love when you
are begging your partner to make him or her understand your feelings. One wrong
misunderstanding or communication gap is enough to break a healthy
relationship.
In the majority of cases, people are
confused with the definition of a life partner. Sometimes it’s just an
attraction that drives you to fall in a relationship. Sometimes attraction
develops later in the arranged marriage scenario. It is always advisable to be
interdependent on each other immaterial of whatever marriage you do. People
fail to understand true love is like a sea voyage where one partner must trust
the other’s capabilities. It’s like taking care and giving love from both
sides. If one can’t swim then it’s the
other partner’s duty to put a lifejacket on the one who can’t swim. This way
both can sail safely to the shore.
Loveship is a kind of mystery, those who
are lucky and have abundance of patience, morality, maturity and forgiveness
are able to solve this mystery. Most importantly, you need to know yourself
really well before trying to know your partner.
Most of the time people move on to find
another paradise, but a few would still fight to get their relationship back on
track. No matter who has cheated on whom or who has shifted the gear, it is the
strong connection between the two souls that keep them saying that there is
still some hope to reconcile.
Hindi films, popularly known as Bollywood have the most beautiful collection of sad songs. These songs are just not a piece of music, but a story, hidden with many emotions.
BEST 100 Bollywood Sad Songs
1. Sab Kuch luta ke – Ek saal
2. Hum dard ke maron ka- Daag
3. Duniya badal gayi – Babul
4. Jane na dil ki lagi – Buzdil
5. Bhool gaye kyon deke – Anokhi ada
6. Phir aah dil se nikli – Mela
7. Tum rahe na tum hum rahe na hum- Kagaz
ke Phool
8. Chand phir nikla- Paying guest
9. Jaun kaha bata ae dil – Choto behen
10.Dil ka khilona – Gunj thinks shenaye
11.Phir Koi chot mohabbat ki – Dil ne phir
yaad kiya
12.Yaad na jaye – Dile ek mandir
13. Mujhe bhool jana – Taqdeer
14. Din dhal jaye – Guide
15. Lag ja gale – Woh kaun thi
16. Jo humne – Woh kaun thi
17. Aa Jao Tadapte hain armaan – Awara
18.Teri yaad dil se- Hariyali aur raasta
19. Raha gardishon mein hardam- Do badan
20. Aa laut ke aaja mere meet- Rani Rupmati
21. Jana tha humse door – Adalat
22. Jis dil Mein basa tha pyar tera –
Saheli
23. Waqt karta jo wafa – Dil ne pukara
24. Hum pyar mein Jalen walo ko- Jailor
25. Uthaye ja henke sitam – Andaz
26. Tera jana – Anari
27. Na tum bewafa ho – Ek kali muskayee
28. Bedardi balma – Arzoo
29. Main to tum sang nain milake- Manmauji
30. Aaj dil pe koi zor chalta nahi – Milan
31. Agar mujhse mohabbat hain- Aapki
parchaayian
32. Yeh shaam ki tanhaiyan – Aah
33.Aansu bhari hain – parvarish
34.Keh do koi na kare – Gunj uthi shehnai
35.Teri raho Mein khade hain – Chaliya
36.Tum mujhe yu – Pagla kahin ka
37.Koi sagar dil ko – Dil diya dard liya
38.Sau baar janam lenge – Ustado ke ustad
39.Hum the jinke sahare – Safar
40. Do dil toote – Heer Ranjha
41. Main to Deewana – Milan
42. Mere Mehboob- Mr X in Bombay
43. Kya se kya ho gaya – Guide
44. Dil todne wale – Son of India
45. Ajnabi tum jane pehchane se – Hum sab
ustad hain
46. Mujhe teri mohabbat ka – Aap aaye bahar
aayi
47 Tujhe humne mohabbat ka – Patthar ke
sanam
48. Betab dil ki – Haste zakham
49. Aaj socha to aansoo – Haste zakham
50. Koi Nahi hai phir bhi hai mujhko –
Patthar Ke Sanam
51. Mere Tumhare beech mein ab to – Jhuk gaya
aasman
52. Koi jab tumhara hriday – Purab aur
paschim
53. Meri Zindagi mein aate – Kanyadaan
54. Khush rahe tu sada – Khilona
55. Pardesiyon se na – Jab jab phool khile
56. Kabhi khud pe kabhi halat pe – Hum Dono
57. Fiza ke Phool pe – Safar
58. Teri duniya se hoke Majboor- Pavitra
papi
59. Ja re kare badra – Dharti kahe pukar ke
60. Teri galiyon mein na – Hawas
61. Ankhiyon Ko rehne de – Bobby
62. Hui Sham unka khayal aaya – Mere humdum
mere dost
63. Mere dushman tu meri – Aaye din Bahar
ke
64. Chingari koi bhadke – Amarprem
65. Ye Dil Tum Bin – Izzat
66. Koi hota jisko apna – Mere apne
67. Dil aaj shayar hain – Gambler
68. Tere bina Zindagi se- Aandhi
69. Jabbhi hi chahe – Daag
70. Na jane kaise – Badalte rishte
71. Jind le gaya – Aap ke saath
72. Sheesha ho ya dil ho – Aasha
73. Zindagi imtihan leti hain – Naseeb
74. Pardes Jake pardesiya- Arpan
75. Har ek jeevan hai ek kahani – Bezubaan
76. Yaad aa rahi hain – Lovestory
77. Hum bewafa hargiz na the – Shalimar
78. Mere pi ko pawan- Gulami
79. Kahi na ja – Bade dilwala
80. Kisi nazar ko tera – Aitbaar
81. Lagi aaj sawan ki – Chandni
82.O priya priya – Dil
83.Aaine ke sau tukde – Maa
Dil Kehta hai – Akele hum akele tum
Ab tere bin – Aashiqui
84.Jiye to jiye – Saajan
85.Tumhe dekhe meri aankhe – Rang
Pyar ye jaane kaisa hain – Rangeela
86. Tu hi re – Bombay
87. Mere sanam – Tere mere sapne
88.Ye dil deewana – Pardes
89. Koi fariyaad- Tum bin
90. Jiya jaye kaise – Tum bin
91. Meri duniya mein – Tum bin
92. Aakh hain bhari bhari – Tumse accha
kaun hain
93. O sahiba – Dil hai tumhara
94. Badan juda hote hain – Koyla
95. Hum to dil se hare – Josh
96. Meri chahat ka diya- Devdas
97. Ja sanam mujhko hai – Na tum Jano na
hum
98.Tere liye – Veer Zaara
99. Do pal ruka – Veer Zaara
100.Zindagi ne Zindagi bhar gham diye- The train
“Loving your spouse’s family will solve half of
your relationship problems” – Unknown
